ACK!!! This one didn’t get posted yesterday on the 29th!!! I still had it sitting in drafts!!! SORRY!
I could list a whole ton of stuff here. I could list silly things like getting my nose fixed – it has a hump, which Moo insists is NOT a hump – or I could get a tummy tuck after the baby is born. I could list stuff like being a better wife or mom – which is all pretty vague. I could also tell you how I need to dress better or find a makeup that doesn’t irritate my sensitive skin and eyes and actually wear makeup again.
But thing I need to work on the most is to actually value what I do.
Moo will come home from work and I’ll ask about his day and he’ll tell me how he put out fires (figuratively) all day or went to this meeting or that one. He’ll ask how mine went and I’ll usually tell him I didn’t get anything done.
What actually got done that day would fill a page, but I don’t see it that way. I don’t see playing with my daughter or cleaning the kitchen or making some cards as things worthy of being listed in the things I did.
And this is something that needs to be listed AND appreciated if not by anyone else, at least by myself.
Day 2: Something you love about yourself
Day 3:Something you have to forgive yourself for
Day 4: Something you have to forgive someone else for
Day 5: Something you hope to do in your life
Day 6: Something you hope you never have to do
Day 7: Someone who has made your life worth living
Day 8: Someone who has made your life hell or treated you badly
Day 9: Someone you didn’t want to let go, but who drifted
Day 10: Someone you need to let go, or wish you didn’t know
Day 11: Something people seem to compliment you the most on
Day 12: Something you never get compliments on
Day 13: A band or artist that has gotten you through some tough times
Day 14: A hero that has let you down
Day 15: Something or someone you couldn’t live without
Day 16: Something or someone you could definitely live without
Day 17: A book you’ve read that changed your view on something
Day 18: Your views on gay marriage
Day 19: What is your opinion of religion?
Day 20: Your views on drugs and alcohol.
Day 21: (Scenario) Your best friend is in a car accident and you got into a fight a couple of hours before. What do you do?
Day 22: Something you wish you hadn’t done in your life
Day 23: Something you wish you had done in your life
Day 24: Make a playlist to someone and explain why you chose those songs
Day 25: The reason you believe you’re still alive today
Day 26: Have you ever thought about giving up on life?
Day 27: What’s the best thing you’ve got going for you right now?
Day 28: What would you do if you got pregnant (or got someone pregnant) right now?
Day 29: Something you hope to change about yourself
Day 30: A letter to yourself