First edition of this is here:
3. What to do when your baby girl, who has been whining most of the night in her crib at grandma’s house, wakes up at 4 am with a 102.8 fever. However, I feel vindicated because even the doc at urgent care didn’t see that she had an ear infection. Took the regular pediatrician digging the ear wax out of her ear to see it. Bad mother. Bad. Bad.